Hi Sweetie! Oh, you're not born yet, might never be. However, in the event that you are conceived, and you make it until, hmmm, let's say 14, this note's for you.
I know you think your dad is way out of touch and does not understand what it's like to be a young lady like yourself. But I've lived a lifetime and I do indeed know the world and most importantly, honey, I know about boys, and about men.
I've not only been a boy, but I've known hundreds. Darling, there are some good guys out there, and you'll probably think that they're more boring than the "bad-boys".
When you're young, you're probably going to want excitement. When you mature and become an adult, you're going to want someone reliable, sweet and compassionate. You won't find that boring at all. You will love that guy. And while you're enjoying that "boring man", you will notice a long line of women getting their hearts crushed by those exciting guys who are basically, selfish to the core.
That's the key, honey! Please, find out how to determine if a guy is selfish and if he puts others ahead of himself. How does he treat his mother, his sisters and other women. Listen to what he says but also what he doesn't say.
It's true, we learn from our mistakes. But most of the time, our mistakes can set us back many years and many tears. Learn how to learn from the mistakes of others.
Surround yourself with positive, encouraging people. Pursue your dreams. Life goes by so incredibly fast. Don't waste your time on losers, jerks and dogs.
I love you. Dad
Thursday, February 25, 2010
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